it sounds to me as though he was trying to get you drunk for the sole purpose of taking advantage of you. i am so sorry this has been such a horrible experience. i would stay far, far away from this guy. for he is no friend. no friend would take advantage of you the way he did. and if you feel your drink may have been spiked you can get a drug test at almost any pharmacy these days. if it comes back positive for drugs...then yes, you were definetly raped. there are alot of date rape drugs out there these days. something to remember --- always keep an eye on your drink and never leave it unatended and always get/mix it yourself. always here if you need to talk.

recluse1