Easy, stop buying his things for him and using. It sounds like this is a volatile and codependent relationship to me. He's manipulating you by saying he's going to OD without you. Well chances of a OD are high whether he's with you or not. Whoever he lives with needs to either tell him to go or get an eviction letter from the court. Most of all I feel sorry for your children. They're witnessing both parents using drugs and cussing each other out on a regular basis and that's not healthy for anyone here. Work on getting clean and learn to be independent and support yourself. You need to focus on your own health here and he's a big boy that can make his own decisions. Make the right choices for your children. Having one healthy parent around is better than having two that are using and arguing all day.

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