bpdsufferer, I would suggest making an appointment with a genetic counselor at a major medical center. Travel a few hours if you need to. When I was pregnant, my genetic counselor knew all the answers, in great detail, to my questions about chemical and drug exposures (I worked in a lab). He had access to databases with all this info. My MD knew nothing (and had referred me to the GC). So a GC, if anyone, should be able to answer many of your questions.

Good luck. And best of luck to your daughter. I am glad her seizures are under control.