Is this kinda like the off topic thread in General, only we're discussing anything and everything about sexuality? I like it, great thread!

My sexual preference is men, but I've had crushes on women. There was a woman in college who looked like a combination of Jewel and the chic from Chasing Amy and many other Kevin Smith movies. She was beautiful! She was in my english class and we became fast friends. She was a lesbian and I opened up about my bi-curiousness. She said she found me attractive, but didn't want to do anything since I was still in the curious mode, she didn't want to hurt me. I still respect her to this day for that, though I would have liked a make-out session with her lol.

I still find women attractive. Sometimes they just take such good care of themselves and look amazing that its hard not to look lol. There's a woman in some of my meetings, (I'm gonna change her name and call her Mary). Anyway, there are several "Mary's" and so when we refer to her, we call her "Hot Mary". She's just so gorgeous, its hard not to notice even though I consider myself straight.

In the movie Chasing Amy, the female charactor is gay and the male charactor has a crush on her. They end up falling in love and she says this thing that I love. She says something like "I have no control over who I fall in love with. I fall in love with the person, and who would have thought that person would be in a male body". I've always considered this to be how I look at possible partners. It just so happens that I've fallen in love with a man, but I can't honestly say that if I had fallen in love with a woman, that I wouldn't have gone for it just because for the most part, I'm straight. I don't label it...its just love.