Yes, the limits, and I explained that's where I was coming from to t this morning. I really appreciate this conversation y'all, it's helping me figure out my feelings about all of this. T wasn't mad or upset, just sorta seemed offended. I explained to her that I didn't mean it in a derogatory way, was just trying to express my feelings, my confusion, my inability to squish my feelings for her down into the framework of the 'therapy hour', and stuff like that. I think I am going to re-work the poem and email it before my next session.