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Originally Posted by Marylin
Baseline,Put distance between yourself and your mum and sister.They are emotional vampires and are feeding off you making you out to be the problem and overpowering you to keep control of you which to them you are their fix,their emotional food.Don't let them use you and pretend you are the problem when the truth is they are the ones making you ill!
Find others that can meet YOUR needs and reestablish the boundaries between you and your mum and sister and don't let them make you give in to them ever again.Your health will improve,believe me I have done it and so can you.
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Marilyn I am sad to say my husband is just like them and now that I am standing up for myself He grows more distant. Punitive with silence and passive aggression. I have told him to please lets seek treatment together. So I feel alone in my own home and with my mom and siblings. All other family is overseas. I thank God that I have loving friends but I can only share so much because I fear becoming a burden or being abandoned. Thanks for listening to me. What you say make sense I am trying to maintain boundaries and feel less guilty. I am working with T. sOME DAYS it overwhelming and ALL i can do is go inward. Thanks Hun.