another update about this situation. I don't know what to think about this...yesterday my pastor, T, told me that he saw D this week, and D told Pastor T to tell me, that he (D) is not avoiding me (by not calling or messaging), but that he is nervous and afraid of rejection. So, on one hand, I think it is considerate for D to let me know that....but I am curious as to why he feels this way....I will see him in June, (when I go to the church conference meeting) but I am worried about why he is resisting this....I am hoping it is because he is shy about having a relationship or maybe he was hurt in the past, and not because he does not want to have a relationship with ME, in particular. I know I need to meet him in person. I just needed to vent about this latest incident.