my family never understood self harm- i used to ave to lie or the time, " i don't know where they came from", or " i fell", or sometimes just "and what's it to do with you"

sad thing about my experience is that they couldn't care either way, and i'm not sure why that is.

i think families like to think they are doing the best for their children and being supporting, and providing you with what ever you need, so don't understand why you choose to harm yourself later on

or maybe it's down to the ignorance of not wanting (or not really asking) about MI- and your experience

either way i'm sorry you're going through this