Sorry you are hurting.

I personally don't recommend you keep contact. If he needed his things he would let you know. I know he is an ***** but i would be very upset if my ex showed up at my door uninvited especially if I lived with relatives. I'd be livid. It took me awhile to tell my family that I left my ex of 9 years. They really loved him. I would be very upset and angry if he showed up at my door returning things and my family was there .

Are you seeing a therapist? You two only dated few months right? Are you sure you are upset over this guy? Could it be that you are still hurting from what happened with your ex husband?

I doubt he's been with loads of women. Plus he really just wasn't a good BF plus the timing was totally wrong. It will get better with time

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