Additionally, as I study and learn and grow I have come to understand that indeed it is true that alot of people have bad histories. Why then the fear? Why the anger? Why the ostracization?

If only "safe" people are ok, what does this "safe" mean? I would have thought a Therapist would be "safe", but the comment he made points otherwise. Yes, we have talked about it, and yes it is better between us as he understands how I feel about it. I still don't understand why being thrown in a dark corner is the only answer.

Maybe I'm just rambling and venting frustrations.