Since we have starting talking about this "issue" I have been getting depressed over the whole thing. I am starting to feel like it's a deal breaker and that's too bad. Her kids are grown up and out of the house so I understand her want to enjoy life without my kids around all the time. We have known each other for years and she knew what she was getting into but maybe it is just more that she thought it would be. It's just exhausting and it consumes a lot of my mind at times. Maybe I should be with someone that also has young kids and it will just be a big blended family. Who knows...