hello everyone! I hope you all are doing well.As for me,hmm not sure ,,,,the guy I posted about is still in and out of my life ,just when I find the courage to move on he starts doing the things I wish he would do from the beginning ,,he tells me he loves me all the time and I have went to his house to visit a few times ,,,I dont see me or my kids in his house at all ,,,the house is arranged so neatly and very much set up for him ...for instance the room that would have been my sons room is now the b/fs computer room ,,I asked him where would my son go if we moved in later on ? he said" theres another room " which was suppose to be the room for my girls should they ever want to stay with us ...hmmmmmmm I know I have the answers that I'm searching for ,just dont know how to give him up all the way..we are good friends and that is the hard part ,,,if you can help me ,I'm all ears,,,,thanks for the concern and I will yack at ya all later ,,,take care Bee..p.s ...he gets very upset with me if I talk about my problems to anyone so thank you for being here for me cause I know I'm safe here talking about it