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Originally Posted by baseline
Dear Shy, I wish I had some words of wisdom but I don't. I feel for you though. I have one of those, horrible communicators. He also is stubborn and controlling and for years I let him get away with it because I thought I was being too sensitive, i hated confrontation. I finally believe I deserve better from him Therapy for me is helping but I have pleaded with him to try marriage counseling or his own individual therapy. Would your husband be open to couples therapy? good luck hun!  |
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Thanks. Sorry to hear about your stubborn husband. I also felt that I was being a bit to sensitive at times as well. I finally did get him to admit to what's going on last night.
It sounds like we're NOT going to loose the house. The bad news is that not even he knows what's going on as the relator didn't get back to him yet. And what's odd is that he didn't even check to see if this guy is licensed or not! The good news is that he didn't give him any money. He tends to be right about the outcome of most situations as he's very smart, and this isn't his first rodeo.
As for couples therapy, there is no way he'd ever go for any reason. He's very stubborn and he thinks that therapy doesn't work, and that it's a waste of time and money, ugh. It also hasn't worked that well for me in the past, so I'm putting off on seeing one.
Now is not a good time to start seeing one because of money issues. If I can find a free one, I'll go for sure. Still looking. It's NOT easy finding a free therapist where I live, ugh!