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Originally Posted by healingme4me
I get the point about not wanting to discuss things after a certain time at night, however.....
Let me tell you the story of 2 widows in my life. One was kept in the dark about the financial side of family preservation, hey they were country club sect and she just didn't need to worry, right?
The other, they still had finances no doubt but her husband didn't want her in the dark if anything happened to him.
One was taken advantage of by family, the other was so far ahead of the game and continues to live comfortably and independent.
Point being, if he loves you he would want to see that you can manage in the event of his absense. That's what providers do.
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That's what I worry about constantly! I told him many times that I'll have no clue what to do if anything happens to him. He just tells me to not worry as nothing will happen to him.
I'll have to keep on nagging him unfortunately to tell me what do do if he dies before me. I'll need to know what's in his will, and where the important papers are, and he needs to get life insurance for me as well. I'll make sure that is done after this disaster is over with.
I'll have my dad intervene too as he might listen to him. I don't get why he'd try to keep me in the dark and be so secretive with me. It's almost as if I'm married to someone who's working for the CIA or something like that at times, lol!