I understand your point. If she isn't responsible then you are the one taking care of finances. My sister in law never worked and doesn't understand money so I am pretty sure she isn't involved in major financial decisions at this point in hers and my brothers life. He takes care of that. I was just concerned about op husband due to other things she shared ( abuse etc) so I do worry about him leaving her high and dry and no money

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