Hugs to you from me Mr Skeezyks,I guess it is true,thing are what they are,what is is.
Fear keeps us prisoner,past hurts are stored in our bodies and we heed the message of those wounds,don't do what you did in the past to cause this pain.I happen to believe we can clear the wounds,heal them and then move fearlessly where we have trod before and obtain a more positive outcome,but with advancing years this gets harder.
I know how to deal with my fear sometimes, to be positive like I am in the paragraph above and clear the hurt,so I am light ,at peace and care free.I am sad for you Mr Skeezkys......I am the same as you, a solitary soul doing my best and staying out of the world's way.It is sad because in theory I have all the answers

God bless you Mr Skeezyks and thanks for supporting me on here.Marylinx