and of course it works in reverse. which was probably what my therapist was getting at. i much preferred to get inside his head and play his role, but of course he didn't mean for me to do that.

when i post there is a theraputic window. a theraputic window for posting when posts benefit and do not harm. i get the window wrong sometimes. i'm too emotional (unconsolible) or not emotional enough (critical) and things don't go so well when i'm not in the space.