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I think I hurt his feelings when I said that but it was a big moment for me in terms of saying what I was feeling. I'm just not sure about anything anymore.

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When you take that thought further, that you think you've hurt his feelings what do you think his reaction/thoughts might be? Are you possibly projecting your imagined reaction onto him?

It does sound like a big moment for you to be able to say that, sister. But T can take it and welcomes hearing what works and what doesn't. He's still there for you because he wants to be. And by receiving this important feedback from you he can be there in the way that works best for you. It's good that you put the two of you on the same page!

((( sister )))