Not much comes to mind for me, either. Never had to verbally set boundaries. He's very respectful--to the point of pussyfooting a bit, honestly. I'm sorry about the crossings you've experienced. I would react very poorly to intrusive questions about CSA, and going in for the ambush hug is a pretty good way to get hit.
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