im a guy... emotional bluntness is something to be expected it seems... be tough, you are the hunter, the mind says... but im really emotional too... i just dont get to talk to anyone because i have to be someone else all the time...
you dont have to apologize... if they make you feel uncomfortable then as a guy i would just avoid talking about that with taht person...
but i avoid alot of things and im not good with communicating or relationships so i cant give good advice...