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Originally Posted by BDPpartner
I saw a tv show about porn and the affect it has on teenagers eg boys getting the impression that ejaculating into a girls face was their right and generally getting a tainted view of what they can expect from a sexual partner. But perhaps as an adult who has experienced the reality of sex ( take your partners feelings into consideration as well as having to please them while also trying to get yourself satisfied ) you are finding pornography more stimulating because it's about you, none of that considering someone else a sense of being able to do exactly what you want, to be selfish without the consequences, just plain self gratification which leaves you able to get an erection without meds. If that is the case perhaps after conversation with your wife you could re-enact something from a porno or role-play your filming your own. Have fun with it ��
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The role-playing is a great idea... I hope the OP gets your message.
But that thing about teenaged boys in re porn/facial ejaculation, I'm not so sure about. Maybe the documentary was right about boys viewing the practice as their right after seeing it in pornographic movies. I never saw it in any movie and I don't think my first girlfriend would have but she introduced me to the practice in 1971, I guess. I learned, pretty quickly over the years, that it wasn't every girls cup of tea.
If I can get the courage, I'll ask her where she learned of the practice. Since it was new to us, I thought that her older sister had taught her. It wasn't until college that I learned that the practice was controversial amongst girls and that MANY boys had a kind of sick sadistic/domineering feeling about it.
So it's common in pornography? They've kind of ripped the guts out of anything private, I guess.