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Originally Posted by Trippin2.0
By making the changes you've described it shows you do have good judgement.
So use that to identify the qualities you seek in a woman, and pursue this type of woman.
As divine said, desperation can lead us to the wrong people, but even the wrong people don't have the power to destroy our lives.
I've been with two wrong persons (one reallllly wrong one out of immaturity not desperation), and they were great lessons in what I am not willing to put up with.
You don't sound desperate to me, your life seems otherwise on track.
Don't allow fear to hold you back from getting what you want, trust yourself to make good choices, and give yourself some credit.
You clearly are more competent than you give yourself credit for.
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Thank you Trippin 2.0!
Mmh, the problem I face doing this, is I don't know how to know a girl is the type of woman I seek. My father told me there is no way to know, really but there has to be a way, isn't it?
That's right, in the end, only us can allow others to destroy us so if I refuse and don't let the wrong people do it, they won't be able to, I'm indestructible!
I get you. I spent 1 year with a girl a long time ago and we'd never do things I liked. I decided never again, I would put up with these one-sided relationships.
Thanks! It is, I'm lagging in love lol but I did the first step by admitting I needed help and ever since, I'm always making progress, I'm on the right way, I do all I can to improve and it's only a matter of time before I get my love sphere back on track as well! I'm confident.
F toxic shame. lol This is the reason I don't always give me as much credit as I should. I'll keep working on that.
Thank you very much!
