I appreciate all the positive feedback. I admit I'm not the best housekeeper, but she just made me feel like I'm a filthy slob, which I'm not, I'm just not an ocd neat freak like she is. I texted her this morning to confirm that coming over after work tomorrow is still okay and I have yet to get a response from her. You think she would just say yes or no...but now it's a passive aggressive power game. I'm going to have to text her tonight and tomorrow morning I'm sure before I get an answer.

I just wish I had someone to go with me tomorrow to keep a buffer and keep it light and friendly, you know?

Sigh. Thanks for all the great support, everyone. You made me feel a lot better. I think this is definitely a situation of she has her truth of the situation and I have mine, and they don't match up.

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