Hey all.

So I've been with in a relationship with a girl I've known for nearly two years. Probably about a month or so ago she broke up with her boyfriend. A few weeks after that we got together. So it's only been less than a week.

My girlfriend is VERY honest and we were good friends before we started dating. She's always telling me how lucky she feels to have me and how happy I make her. She also is very transparent (meaning if I ask her a question she just answer it honestly).

So having a dream that she cheated on me came as a surprise. But it was with her ex boyfriend. So it kind of sucked to see that in my dream. In reality, she hates this guy as he was toxic and a total asshole to her (I saw it and I knew all about it when we were just friends). But because the break-up is fresh, he still contacts her. She's told him not to. She told me she wants him to "leave her the **** alone." She's polite though and simply told him "I don't want to talk."

In all honesty, I'm not sure I have anything to worry about but this dream most certainly sucked!

My girlfriend even told me "I will always be with you unless you tell me otherwise." That scared the **** out of me. Maybe that's part of the dream. I've known her almost two years, so even though the relationship is new, it doesn't seem that a statement like that should scare me so much.

Do you guys think it's fear of abandonment playing out in my dreams? And should I take any action...like telling her about the dream or just keep it to myself?

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