Hello (((BLUE))). Try to take things one day at at time. Just thinking about being overwhelmed can start the depression. Just getting up and doing and not worrying about getting everything done is a help at times. Set a timer for 15 minutes and then just take a break and then consider what needs to get done the most and the least, and do the most important things first and then move on to the next thing on the list. Rewriting the list helps as well, so it makes more sense to you to get things done in a manner that is specific and available and can be done in a manner that is acceptable for you and your husband. perhaps your husband can talk to your therapist so he can understand that things are not getting done because of the depression and it is not getting done because you choose not just to do things in the house. Depression is very debilitating but you can get better but until then just take things one day at a time. Can you have someone come in and help you clean until you are feeling better?I hope things get better for you soon. Take care. Soidhonia