People with BPD often have difficulty in relationships. I have BPD too and I've never had a relationship without drama. The fear of abandonment, the constant need for attention ect. It really gets out of hand. If you're not in therapy already, I highly recommend it. Learn as much about yourself as you can right now and better yourself for the future and hopes of a healthy bond with someone.

As far as the lying goes, whenever someone lies to me, even a small white lie, I wonder what else they've lied about. What else are they capable of doing if they can hurt me with lies?? It really messes with my head. And being able to trust someone's word is very important to me. It shows who you are as a man.

Take this time to heal, reflect, cry. Do whatever you need to get over this person and don't obsess or try to go backward. Staying out of contact is probably important to heal and who knows, maybe in the future you guys can be friends.

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