Hello Gym23: I see this is your first post here on PC... so... welcome to PsychCentral... from the Skeezyks! May you find the time you spend here to be of benefit.

It sounds to me as though you & your husband are having some serious difficulties. You asked if you should see your doctor. This may be a good first step. But another thing you might consider, if your hubby is willing, is to invest in some marriage / couples counseling. Maintaining a long-term marital relationship can be tough. The two of you have only been married for 3 years & you've already hit some rough water, so to speak. Before things continue to get even more complicated, some honest & open communication between you & your husband, with the help of a skilled marriage & family therapist, may be important.

Sometimes men, in particular, can be resistant to such efforts. If you find that your husband is, then please seek individual therapy for yourself to help you to deal with how you are feeling about this situation as well as to figure out what, if anything, to do about it. I wish you well...