Now, almost all of the time. I've had to call T twice in 8 months due to a transference issue I didn't recognize. In therapy, talking about how I feel or think about T is directly related to how I felt or thought about others in my life, how the relationship progressed or, mostly, fell apart. It's hard. Telling T I feel abandoned when T leaves for a week. But as hard as it is, it's immensely helpful. I finally 'get' the need for attachment.