Hello Jennifer. I am sorry that you are struggling at this time. Perhaps if you get rid of the things one at a time (Say 1 item per week), then the trauma you are feeling about giving your items up will be lessened. It is somewhat common for someone going through a tragedy to Not want to give up things just because you feel that you have given up enough already because of the assault. It is sometimes easier to buy things to replace the items you are going to get rid of, just done overspend or go into debt in order to buy new things. There are many consignment shops and used clothing stores that offer new or practically new clothing for low prices. Take care Jennifer. I hope the best for your future. Soidhonia