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Originally Posted by eskielover
First off, a GOOD FRIEND wouldn't do this!!!!!! You said you learned a lesson from this. I hope it was that he's NOT your friend & with the crappy morals that are rampant these days....don't go to bars & if you do when you feel something bad & you can't drive yourself, call your husband to come & get you. If you are in a place where you wouldn't want your husband to come & pick you up then you shouldn't be there in the first place.
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You're right, a good friend wouldn't do that! Yes, I did learn my lesson finally! The one lesson that he did teach me was that when you talk about your problems to much, you'll eventually wear out your welcome with your friends and that people generally don't care about much that doesn't involve them.
So I'll do that and not trust anyone with certain things. I told him to much about my insecurities, my problems, my husband, my family issues, and then he had the nerve to open his big mouth and insist that I tell his g.f about a sensitive issue? Eff him!
She didn't even seem to care about my secret. She was chill and just didn't want to get involved. Why would he make such an issue of me revealing a secret to his g.f that I just met that day? WTH? Man, he is the one with the issues here! I know that I have problems, but seriously, I would never ever do that to a friend! He must be resentful of me that I have a husband to take care of me and he has to fend for himself. Idk.
About my husband, he trusts me, but he tends to blame me for anything that goes wrong usually with friends, bad situations, and not having the common sense to stay away from trouble, etc....that's not exactly true. Sometimes bad things happen despite your best efforts to avoid them, that's life. You can't always avoid bad people either no matter what. That would be nice if he could've picked me up, but he would've lectured me, yelled at me, told me to not drink so much, etc....ugh!