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I don't think that was his intention honestly. The times that I have gone out with him in the past, he paid for his own stuff, and he even paid for a few of my drinks.

Also, we were only supposed to go out for drinks. I got hungry, so it was my idea to eat somewhere and I was the one who offered to pay for the meal. He made up for things later by buying me drinks the rest of the time.

He was always a nice guy who I thought that I could trust. He never took me to bars that sleazy in the past. One was OK, the rest of them though, yikes!

He has a lot of friends at those places, or acquaintances he told me. He has been there for me over email in the past when he was stuck at home caring for his dad. I think that all of the stress got to him and he lashed out at me since he is probably envious of me too.

Why else would he mention anything about how my husband is good to me, and how he gives me money, and how I have it so good supposedly even though we might loose our house soon. WTH is that all about?

He can work now, but is taking some time off to enjoy himself. He can get a good paying job again, and he has house that he is planning to sell, and his g.f owns a $1 million dollar house in a big city, so they have assets. They're not that broke. Especially if they can afford to go out to bars as often as they've been doing recently.

So it's not as if he's about to become homeless anytime soon. He just has a ton of bills to pay. Don't we all? That doesn't excuse bad behaviour. To hell with him.

He hasn't apologized to me yet, and he probably never will. No real friend would do that to someone they claimed to "love". He told me the whole night, we love you, you're so cool, you get us, etc....but all that was B.S.

He is a mean, judgemental *** with questionable morals, and he is broken like he said. Friends don't lash out at you when they're stressed out like that or act like they're jealous of you for being better off than they are.

Also, I'm never going to a bar again w/o my husband, or a VERY trustworthy friend with good morals and judgement. And I certainly will never step foot in any low class ones from now on. I'm also going to not really drink that much anymore at home or out in public.

I've gotten into to much trouble that way, and people can be so mean when they're drunk. Not to mention crazy too. I don't like being around that scene, it's not for me. And i definitely will never drive after I've had anything to drink. I can't risk that ever again or I'll go to jail for 2 years. So that's why I had to "sleep" in my car the whole night. It's sad that I couldn't afford a hotel, ugh! And that guy who came up to my car with that gas canister was up to no good apparently. Thank god that I scared him away!

I was so upset that I called one good friend that I have in real life and talked to her for 40 minutes on the phone. I'm lucky that she was able to listen to me talk. Never again! To hell with him and people like him! He is a trashy person for sure!