The thing is, you're going to get opinions or differing points of view whether you ask for them or not. I see this board as a great big conversation area. Everyone is free to post or respond to whatever interests them. Why can't we just accept that other people aren't going to see things the same way we do and move on. If you feel you HAVE to say something, just say "Thank you for your input, however I don't agree" and leave it at that.