Hey all. So I have a bit of a situation. I am a counseling intern who's in their 20s. And another intern today came in my room today and said something that sounded like, "I really want to kiss you". I really didn't hear her that well but that's what it sounded like. Anyways, she closed the door to my office, came over to my side of the desk, and leaned over to kiss me. I was shocked but then I jumped up and said, "No...no." I was stuttering and stammering because I was really flustered, and she looked offended.

My friends and mother think I should report it but I am worried and I will most likely not speak up because 1) she just came out as transgender in our work place and I know how people can treat trans individuals like crap and 2) she was offered a job. I don't want to get her in trouble.

I'm also confused because she always spoke about her partner and she is 30+ years older than me. At first I thought she was just talking to me before because we're both queer, but I guess she was just attracted to me.

What should I do?? I am freaking out because of my childhood issues. I'm a survivor of childhood sexual abuse and people have come on to me before without my consent so this has me really shaken up. I feel like I still can't trust people. Please give me your insights. I could really use it.

Thank you.