True, but if it isn't realized, what good is it?
Is this the question thread?
Maybe I've been playing it too long?
Maybe people forget this isn't real life but virtual, and a different place?
Maybe people are so tormented IRL, so disrespected IRL that it rubs off on them and they naturally display it here to others?
Maybe sadness makes people say things they wouldn't normally?
Maybe being virtual allows people to say things they wouldn't normally, but want or need to?
Is that enough questions?

(sorry Tomi, if you think this is a hijack, say so and I'll delete.)