Well, I picked up everything from her place yesterday. I managed to get everything in one trip. She was a real ***** about it. I texted her Tuesday morning to confirm that I could come by Wednesday after work and asked her to text me when she got home on Wednesday. Well, she never responded to that text. So then, Wednesday, I get home a bit late from work, and I get a text from her asking me to tell her when I'm going to pick my stuff up. And I respond that I've been waiting to hear from her if it's okay to come over. So she sends me a screenshot of her phone showing that she never got the message (well, that's bull because she could have deleted the message and then took the screenshot). So anyways I say I'll come over right now to pick up my stuff.

So as I'm finishing loading up my stuff she comes over to me and says "I washed the bed mattress pad for you, it had blood on it and it's soaking in shout right now." And I'm not sure what to say to this, because a) she didn't wash it for me, it's not mine and I'm not taking it with me, so she's washing it for her. And b) it wasn't really a question. And c) wtf do I know about blood on the mattress pad? I didn't bleed all over it, to my knowledge. So then she continues "And that right there is why "this" (and she gestured between her and me) didn't work." And she said it in this really *****y, snippy way, not like I'm sorry but this is why it didn't work but like I'm a total *****. Anyways so I finally responded "NAME, that's not the only reason this didn't work. I'm just as upset with you as you are with me. And I think I've got just as much right to be upset as you do. I told you Saturday I didn't want to talk about it because I'm too upset and I'm still too upset now. I don't want to discuss it." And she goes, "well this is the only time you're going to have to discuss it." And I responded "well, I'm too upset to do so right now, so I guess we won't." And then she continues "I'd like to know what I did." Very demandingly. And I responded "I told you, I don't want to discuss it right now." WTF?! How many times do I have to say that it's not something I feel capable of discussing at the moment?

Also, when I started bringing my stuff outside to load up my truck, she just started helping and bringing stuff out and throwing it in my truck. I had to stop her and say "please let me load the truck myself, there's a way this needs to be done."

She was just a huge ***** about everything. And well, I thought I was done, but it turns out, she texted me this morning, there was still some frozen food (a bag of vegetables and a frozen lunch) and a figurine (i don't know how the figurine even got to her house because I thought it was still in my apartment in the other city) and would I like to come pick them up. I don't give a damn about the food but the figurine was a gift from my mom. And I can't go pick them up until I get back in town Sunday because I have to work late tonight and tomorrow I get up very early to pick up the moving truck and get on my way to go get my stuff to move to my new place...so she's just going to have to wait until Sunday.

She really has been the roommate from hell. Regardless of my shortcomings as a roommate, she has been equally as bad in her behavior, her lack of communication, and her inconsiderateness. I say it like this because yesterday my pdoc told me that I was always excusing people for their bad behavior towards me like it was my fault. So I'm saying it now, regardless of whatever I did or didn't do, she's a ****** roommate.

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