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Originally Posted by barbella
This might sound really boring (and possibly shallow) but ... could you possibly make a detailed list of what your 'ideal' person would be like? The whole person - from looks to habits to qualities to how they treat the counter person at Timmy's!! I think it is helpful to keep going back to the list when you start meeting people. Is anyone close to your 'ideal'? I found someone who is such a good fit for those qualities. I suspect you can too. I also agree what a person's looks &/or getting intimate too early can really cloud our judgement. Good luck to you as you wait for the dental work to get finished up. Let us know how you do if you are OK with it.
I really wish you all the best.
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Barbella, it is not boring or shallow lol. Actually, I made a list last night of traits I'd like my ''ideal'' person to have and here it is :
-Passion, Integrity, Happiness, Intelligence, Sexual Assertiveness, Financial Responsability, Commitment to personal growth, Honesty, Disciplined.
I think so too and no, there is no one so far BUT I'm still looking, from afar, I'm confident I'll find someone eventually.
I believe there are tons of persons for each and every one of us (there is over a billion of candidates on Earth) so it's not a matter of if but rather, when. Yeah, I'll take it slowly, definetely. I read that if you try to know someone better and have sex with that person, the learning stop. If they go too fast, I'll tell future partners ''not before marriage''. LOL I won't forget to mention this was a joke though, just in case.
Thank you Barbella! I'm getting my last sutures removed tomorrow morning and I restarted eating solid food rather awkwardly so I'm on the right track! lol I talked with some people in real life, including one very hot girl at the grocery store and I was impressed. I feared I would be ashamed of the gaps in my mouth but not at all, it doesn't affect my self-confidence one bit! I reached a level of self-confidence where I just don't care if people don't like things about me and it shows in my social interactions. This will help in future dating!
I'll keep you all informed on how I do, take care!
