Wow ((((big hug))))

That figurine sent a chill up my spine in the sense of did she purposely hide it, to begin with? You know she'll want that discussion with you?? (manipulation)

It's interesting your pdoc says that you make excuses for others. I actually can relate to having done that in my own life. On that note, caution about who is pulling your strings.

I wouldn't give much attention about the silly mattress. And no, don't offer to buy another.

Try to make it quick. Less talk or defending yourself. It's a catch 22.