I am so sorry they won't let you see her. More then likely they want you to remember how she was not has she is now.

I was 17 when my grandmother died and I was forced into her room after she died and had been dead a while for the priest to say the last rites. Now when I think of my grandmother I see her in that hospital bed with her ears turning blue etc. it takes me a minute to reach for another memory to replace that one. I think they might be trying to spare you that. They want you to think of the good times

Has for planning her funeral mine is planned and is almost paid for and I am 45 years old but I have lupus,RA and a few other illnesses. This will help my husband he knows my wishes and it will also help financially.

My dad died 2 years ago and he kept his illness a secret till the end. Because if that he did not want us to bare the expense of his passing and he did not want a service because he did not want any arguing

My dad died at home. And when they came to pick him up everyone left but me. I watched them bag up my dad. My mom was horrified that I did that but has his daughter I had to make sure he was treated with respect and he was

Hang in there