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Originally Posted by rep97
I asked myself those questions you posted in your post and the answer was negative. He is listening to me etc.
BUT
I find him intimidating. He is shorter than me and an older person but I still find him intimidating.. like if I talked about my traumas... I would feel re-traumatized since I find him intimidating and not trusting him.
Big dilemma.. yeah sucks.
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In that case... He still might not be the right therapist for you. It may not be his fault but that doesn't mean you still can't switch therapists. Finding a good fit for a therapist is a combination of a lot of factors - of course the therapist has to be good, but also not intimidating, trustworthy, etc. Personalities need to mesh.