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Old Apr 22, 2016, 12:01 AM
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I agree that staying together especially for young kids IS important. Shoot, I stayed in that bad marriage the whole 33 years though the final 13 years was just living under the same roof but separated by the fact that I lived in my own part of the house & never had sex with him.

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I mainly scanned some of the messages... do you and your wife still sleep in the same bedroom? Do you still have dynamite sex? I know some might think me petty for asking but I really do think that it's important for your children to see you sleeping together and maintaining intimacy.
I do have one comment on this from a wife's point of view. If there is no love & the sex is just because the guy wants it, that can very well make the woman feel like a prostitute & if she really doesn't want it, it can feel to her like rape. So just make sure that kind of evrironment isn't happening even with the agreement to stay together for the kids
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