Communication is important, yes? I have been suggesting family therapy, or couples therapy, or any kind of therapy for us parents, the kids, all of us, etc. for months. My wife's replies are all along the lines of: "Therapy is bull****", "therapy doesnt work", "I will not have my parenting questioned". At least I managed to convince her that one child would benefit. She says after 12 sessions over 5 months, "it,s not working!!!" "it won't work" etc. She believes the sheer force of will can fix everything, and what cant be fixed can be ignored.
Now she has gone totally silent: no talking, no texting, no communication of any kind. It 's very strange because we live in the same apartment with our kids.