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Old Apr 22, 2016, 11:18 AM
Talthybius Talthybius is offline
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The responses sound like there is a history behind this that is not in the OP.

I don't know why people suggest you need counseling, if that is based on the OP only.

You aren't working with him anymore and you think you like him. He isn't contacting you. All you need to do is contact him and ask him if he is interested in meeting up.

But, you say you want to get over him. That's 'easy', as you will never see him again. Just wait long enough and you'll forget about him as he is no longer in your life.

If you are really unreasonably obsessing over him, creating a imaginary person out of him, then maybe you could benefit from counseling.

Don't know where the bit about losing self-respect comes from. Liking someone a lot than is probably healthy isn't the same as losing self-respect, right?
Thanks for this!
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