Hello MrMoose: Yes... my wife also adamantly refuses to participate in any type of therapy or counseling... individual, couples, group, or otherwise... I don't even broach the subject with her because I know what the answer would be. I used to be opposed to it as well. However, my mental health struggles have softened me up with regard to the process... (although I don't see anyone anymore either.) While some things can & will change, over time, others are simply immoveable. I wish you well...