Thank you Bill3 for responding. My relationship with her now is non existent. We have not communicated in almost 2 years. I am carrying too much hurt and anger to even consider contact of any kind. I do not like this feeling. Even when I divorced their dad 39 years ago I never had this much anger. This is my daughter...UGH !! I have just been carrying this inside for too long and choose to use this forum to put it on the table. Again thank you kind person.