I would completely relate to that. I used to be with a guy for 7 years and I never enjoyed intercourse. I got very creative, in order to avoid penetration that made me feel extremely uncomfortable and almost nauseous. I am now in a relationship with a woman now though since I got tired of trying to explain myself why I would not have intercourse. I think you don't need a label, but I would guess you'll have to be honest if you go into a relationship as it is a lot of stress if you feel your partner is expecting different things from you.