Hi neutrino, after 7 years of being in heterosexual relationship I am now with a woman for the past 2 years. Personally, I do not think I am bi, as I am not attracted to both genders in general, I just happened to be attractive to these two people. When I first came out to myself, first of all, I became obsessed with all things LGBT for a while and also I met a lot of gay and bisexual individuals. There is a lot of anxiety at the beginning as you want to talk to people about this but you don't know how to represent yourself. I waited until I had a girlfriend to talk to my friends as it was easier to bring it up as a topic.