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Originally Posted by healingme4me
I'm unclear as to how exactly Her Life is Ruined over a marriage between yourself and her father that included a tremendous amount of spousal abuse?
With your oldest daughter mentioning trying a relationship and with a 2year push to move in with your youngest daughter followed by one of the most cold and bizarre welcomings that I've heard of, I question the health of either her marriage or the state of her own emotional state of mind? If your first husband was abusive, there's a strong probability that he had a MI which can genetically pass along. Or if she's having marital struggles and experiencing abuse herself, then that could also explain pent up resentment and rage.
You offered family counseling. She refused.
Why does your oldest daughter believe you need to contact her sister?
Sorry you had to go through that.
Are you at peace in your hometown? Is everything otherwise ok?
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You are right healingme4me...Her relationship is not healthy and she herself has been under counciling since her 21 year old son was born. (Chemical imbalance and way to much medication) The ironic thing is she has her masters in social work..councils the military PTSD patients and is actually very good at it. Her advice to others is usually right on target but she cannot apply it to herself. Instead of repeating myself I hope that you are able to read my responses to the others that posted to me. I am not even sure if I am replying properly and if responses will show on one thread. I promise to find out all the ins and out of this forum - LOL I want to be able to use some of these emoji's so that I can send people like you Hugs etc.
I am comfortable in my own hometown but by using this forum I am working at getting a little more internal peace. Again thank you so much for responding !!
Hugs !!!