I confided in my husband about not wanting to attend a family gathering (his family) and he said he wouldn't know what to tell them. I said tell them I'm not feeling well.

Next thing I know I get a phone call from a family member saying they heard I was considering not coming and they hoped ID reconsider.

Not I feel my confidence to my husband was betrayed by him and I'm very upset.

He says he didn't betray my confidence but he couldn't like to his family.

We've been married 15 years.

I'm having a lot of trouble with this and feel that I can never confuse in him again.

Am I wrong?