Hello (((OKIE))). I agree with everyone else that has made suggestions. Your house is YOUR home and no one elses home that can not respect your wishes and house rules. I commend you for being your daughters parent and setting the boundaries for yourself and your home. I wish other people caould stand up and be a parent to their children, the children and society in general would be better off. Your daughter will appreciate your honesty and sincerity one of these days it will become her strength in needful times.
Take care of yourself Okie. Best wishes to you and your family. Soidhonia