Hi,
I don't think I can help you much more than saying that you're not alone. After I gave birth my sex drive went to zero. But very slowly I sometimes start to experience it again (it's been 2,5 years since my child was born).
For me beeing patient with myself and focusing on other things was good enough. To be honest - I didn't missed it.
If you aren't worried, than I see no reason to be. The only thing that comes into my mind is: Make a medial check-up. Sometimes it's just the meds, but there are also medical conditions that can cause a loss of sexual desire.
Also if it bothers you, can you seek help from a therapist? I don't know your history but for me trauma was part of my loss of desire.
Or maybe a change in medication?
If you are healthy and don't miss something, I don't see a problem with it. There are many people who never in their live experienced sexual desire and it's mostly the people around you that are exhausting (with non-understanding) and not the lack of sex.
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